playing with kids
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If you truly know about me, you will understand that i'm the girl who love celebrate everything. When i see beautiful in flower i will learn about the flower then i celebrate it, when i fall in love in color i will change my clothes and design everything around me with that color and celebrate it, when i know my close friends getting sad or sick i will come to them, giving them some surprise and we laugh together. I really love celebrate everything and the bitter fact is my family never allow me to celebrate my birthday, new years, or others celebration which usually celebrated by all people in the world. I can't celebrate my birthday not because i don't have money or time, but our religion didn't accept it. The simple answer better when i give my money to someone who really need that money or better when i spend my time to talk with Allah for everything happen throughout the age that has been given. My father always said "our Prophet Muhammad never taught us to blow out candles and sing a song to celebrate his birthday, even he crying and praying all night long on his birthday because he realized that his age was diminishing and there are still many sins". I get the lesson that my father trying to explain, but i still want celebrate the birthday is...... maybe without any candles and songs.... i just wanna share my happiness..... and once again if you know me that well, i'm a creative girl and i don't give up easily... so sometimes i celebrate my mom, my father birthday... they are happy and never realize that i celebrate their birthday.... without a song and candles and i hope Allah forgive me at that case. This story is just opening and in this post i wanna tell you how i spend my birthday this year without party but playing with this kids :'>
First their name is Ony (9 yo) and Alya (10 yo), they are my nephews. They are so childish like who i am, they like spending their time to watch some movie just like what i do, if they want something they said to me clearly, no doubt or fear, they never think to much what i will think, i don't know that's good or not. They can't stop playing all day long, then i learn that being mom need "super extra time" to playing with kids and it's impossible to when i'm being full time hospital pharmacist - maybe from now i should preprare another main job when someday i'm being a real mom :p
Having fun with kids sometimes feel so easy but uneasy path following too, their mood increase and decrease so fast, and i still don't know it's good or not, seeing them just like seeing me. My mood never stable, i'm so easy to be happy and sad. Because i feel they are the mirror of me, i can't stop smile everytime i playing with them..... and start learning maybe becoming mom will make you stress all day long but you feel happy at the same time..
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| Kids always look cute even they are sleep |
After 7th days spend my time with that kids i learn (1) kids are fun, they never afraid playing anything because they not thinking or worrying too much about the risk, curiosity is their best friend, (2) whatever their personality is they will love romantic movies, don't afraid spend your night watching the princess switch with them, they will love it, don't worry about kissing scene, i teach them to close their eyes every the scene happen :p , (3) they will happy if you bring something for them after work, like ice cream or flower, you don't need think about the prices, they never ask, they don't need the expensive one, so don't waiting for payday to make them happy, (4) to be friend with jealous feeling is easy for them, so never ever think to get the 2nd child if your first kid not happy enough, (5) you should be creative person when you with kids, because they feel bored quickly, (6) when you feeling lost in adult stage, playing with kids once in a while, even when they are not your children, they will give you so many lessons.
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